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Healing Your Relationship with Food

Intuitive Eating is a powerful tool in mental health counseling for women struggling with overeating, binge eating, low self-esteem, and guilt around food. Many of these challenges stem from diet culture, emotional distress, and a history of restrictive eating patterns.

By focusing on body awareness, self-compassion, and rejecting food guilt, Intuitive Eating helps women rebuild trust in their hunger and fullness cues. In therapy, this approach supports emotional healing by addressing the underlying feelings that drive disordered eating patterns. It also empowers women to separate self-worth from body size and embrace a more balanced, nourishing relationship with food.

Through counseling, women can unlearn harmful food rules, break free from the binge-restrict cycle, and cultivate lasting mental and emotional well-being.

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The Smallest Habit That Can Strengthen Your Relationship

The Gottmans call this concept “turning toward” your partner, and it’s one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your relationship. It means making small, everyday choices to engage with your partner instead of ignoring or dismissing them.

And the best part? It doesn’t require grand gestures or hours of deep conversation. It’s the little moments—the quick good morning hug, the “How was your day?” text, the way you put your phone down when they start talking. These small choices add up over time and create a relationship built on connection and trust.

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How to Know if a Clark Counseling Therapist is the Right Fit for You

Struggling with anxiety, disconnection, or feeling misunderstood? At Clark Counseling, we specialize in supporting women through compassionate, tailored online therapy. Discover if one of our therapists is the right fit to help you find clarity, confidence, and connection again. Your journey toward healing starts here.

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Managing Election Stress: A Mental Health Guide

While elections are important, maintaining your mental health is just as crucial. By approaching political discussions with empathy, being mindful of your emotional responses, and reducing your exposure to online noise, you can navigate this season with more peace and balance.

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Lianne Lindner, LLMSW Lianne Lindner, LLMSW

Have You Heard Of “Glimmers”?

“Glimmers” are the opposite of “triggers”. Where triggers cause us to feel unsafe or relive past traumas, “glimmers” cause us to feel a sense of safety, calm, connection, and peace.  Furthermore, looking for “glimmers” promotes healing, resilience, and a positive mindset.  When one asks you “what are your triggers?”, most likely the response comes quickly. “Glimmers” on the other hand, might be harder to access.  As you practice searching for “glimmers,” you will be able to access these small moments more often, leading to feeling more calm and peace in your nervous system.

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Understanding Secure Attachment

Our early childhood experiences significantly influence our attachment styles. Being securely attached typically means that during childhood, you experienced protection, presence/support, autonomy, interdependence, relaxation, trust, and resilience from your primary caregivers. While basic needs like food, water, and shelter are essential, emotional and psychological needs are equally important for developing a secure attachment.

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Lianne Lindner, LLMSW Lianne Lindner, LLMSW

Mindfulness: You don’t have to be a guru to practice

Practicing mindfulness before you get to a place of crisis, extreme stress, or an unplanned major life event, can be beneficial as you enter those seasons. You do not have to set expectations that you cannot live up to, instead start small, such as just on the weekends, or 5-10 minutes when you wake up or go to bed, or between classes or meetings. As a therapist, I often begin sessions with a short mindfulness practice as a way to model a new skill, and as a way to stop, pause, and bring calm to the therapy space.

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Emotional Flooding

In relationships, emotional flooding is the overwhelming reaction to negativity from partners. Recognizing signs like rapid heartbeat is crucial. Strategic pauses and returning to the conversation calmly are vital to prevent escalation and strengthen bonds.

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Avoiding Burnout

In the pursuit of avoiding burnout, it's important to prioritize what truly matters to us. This means letting go of the pressure to meet external expectations and focusing on activities, relationships, and pursuits that align with our values. By doing so, we create a more intentional and fulfilling life that contributes to our overall well-being.

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Lindsay Kuczera, LMSW Lindsay Kuczera, LMSW

Boundaries Check In: A Guide to Recognizing a Lack of Boundaries

As women navigating through all of our responsibilities and expectations, recognizing the signs that indicate a need for boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental health. Watch out for neglecting self-care, wanting to run away from responsibilities, feeling overwhelmed, feeling resentful towards others, avoiding interactions, being unable to ask for help, or feeling burned out.

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What to Expect at Your First Counseling Session

By understanding what to expect and embracing the process with an open mind, you're setting yourself up for a positive and transformative experience. Change takes time, and the path to healing may have its ups and downs. There will be moments of breakthroughs and self-discovery, as well as moments of challenge and self-reflection. But amidst it all, hold onto the hope that therapy can be a powerful tool for positive change in your life. Know that you're not alone, and with each session, you're taking a courageous step toward a brighter future. Your therapist is there to guide you, support you, and empower you to become the best version of yourself. Embrace the process, and with time and effort, you'll find the healing and growth you're seeking.

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Does Grief Counseling Help?

While grief is a natural response to loss, it can be a challenging and complex emotional journey. Grief Counseling can provide the tools, guidance, and support individuals need to navigate this journey more effectively and ultimately find a path towards healing and resilience. When we don’t allow ourselves the time and space to process and heal from our grief it is at a risk of becoming ‘Complicated Grief’.

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Surviving Winter With Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

For those who struggle with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), these long, cold months can bring more than just beautiful scenes – they can also bring seasonal depression. Read this blog post to create a mental health plan that helps you not just endure, but enjoy Michigan's winter season.

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Clear Communication is Kind

In our pursuit of being kind and accommodating to others, many of us have fallen into the trap of being passive communicators. We believe that going with the flow and saying "yes" to everything is a benevolent gesture, but little do we realize that suppressing our own opinions and feelings can lead to the accumulation of resentment. Eventually, this unexpressed resentment can cause relationships to break down and rupture. The key to preventing this emotional turmoil lies in embracing the concept that clear communication is kind.

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The Power of Conversation

Through dialogue, we can foster empathy, deepen understanding, and strengthen relationships. It is through these sometimes uncomfortable conversations that we have the opportunity to learn, grow, and find common ground.

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Postpartum Depression

Postpartum depression is a common and serious condition that affects about 20% of new mothers. It's not the "baby blues" that many new mothers experience, which is a milder and shorter-lived condition. Postpartum depression can be severe, and it can last for weeks, months, or even longer.

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An Open Letter to MSU Students Returning To Campus

As I have been leading crisis sessions in response to the shooting, I am acutely aware that there is little I can offer. Nevertheless, there are a few things that I want to share with you as you prepare to return to campus today.

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